Oncology Buddies magazine

June 5, 2026 Word for Word Media

Bonni Suckling explains how memorial tattoos give love and cherished memories of your person a permanent place to live.

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Grief doesn’t arrive politely. It barges in, unannounced, and settles itself right on your chest. For me, it was never about ink. It was about not letting go completely. I have many memorial tattoos for my son. A full sleeve, both shoulders, my back. It’s not subtle. All his favourite characters: Stitch, Buzz Lightyear,…

Unpacking Grief My grief and I have commitment issues

April 1, 2026 Word for Word Media

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Bonni Suckling reflects on how removing a sentimental silver necklace became a quiet step forward in her ongoing journey with grief.

My grief and I have been in a long-term relationship. Fifteen years. At this point we should probably have matching tattoos and a joint savings account. But lately things have been tense between us. The current conflict started with a silver necklace. For fifteen years, my son’s name, Jed, has rested against my chest on a little silver chain. This name pendant that has seen things: hospital corridors, triathlons, marathons, and plenty of very ordinary days. It has…

Unpacking Grief Why my grief only misbehaves after 10pm

February 3, 2026 Word for Word Media

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Bonni Suckling candidly shares why after 10pm, her brain clocks out of logic and into her feelings.

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Hello. I’m Bonni. I’m your new grief columnist. I have qualifications and have done the respectable adult things. I can tick boxes and fill in forms and sit in rooms where people say words like stakeholder. But my most devastating credential is this: I’m the mother of a dead child. Yes. Dead. It’s a horrible word….